Boo, you're no fun.I don't think that's the kind of clearing up everyone wants. Sorry.
Yes exactly this too. For example Chibi who got banned, most people probably thought it was because of the Donation thread but in reality, it was because of a PM sent to the Admin. MadPumpkin and the many other accounts from the same guy got banned because of the many accounts created and because of the screenshots posted by a banned member. People who seen there topics may think it was because of what they said.Some times when a person is banned it is not always the reason you think. You may be looking at a post then see it deleted but think it is about that subject when in truth it is not.
I have a lot of loyal voters who would think otherwise.Boo, you're no fun.
Yup, he has a lot of people backing him up on the fun factor, and any vanilla ice cream cones you see, are all his and everytime you give one away, just remember it's because @sage allows it to be.I have a lot of loyal voters who would think otherwise.sage2016
Right guys?
...Guys?
I can't agree more with you. You put that perfectly.I think a lot of people forget that the staff is just a group of members with extra privileges. It shouldn't be scary or even uncommon to discuss things with any of them.
A lot of these ranting/argumentative posts that pop up, in my opinion, stem from a lack of direct communication on everyone's part. We can't pin this on the staff, and we can't pin this on individual members of the staff. It seems like a lot of us, myself included, are wary of addressing a subject on our own most of the time. We notice a problem, but instead of nipping it in the bud, we let the issue eat at us until we find some sort of viable post to bring it up on. That's exactly what happened on the donation topic.
Some of us felt that asking for donations again was kind of excessive, which stemmed into a different problem someone wanted to bring up, which stemmed into a different problem someone wanted to bring up, which stemmed into a different problem someone wanted to bring up, which stemmed into a different problem someone wanted to bring up... Repeat ad nauseam.
I don't think anybody in there brought up a bad point; however, I think all of those points deserved a topic for themselves. We were trying to juggle a ton of only tangentially-related subjects in a single topic. That rarely accomplishes anything beyond frustration, and I think that's very plain to see when the topic inevitably gets locked.
I think plenty of good can be done here without an explosive argument in every major post. As long as we're all willing to speak up and be honest about what's bothering us, consider the opposite side of a disagreement, and most importantly be respectful even in our disagreements, we can accomplish way more than we've been able to.
That is just it, very well said and maybe creating more topics like these will help solve these problems and get everyone on the same track. I know for a fact that posting publicly in a topic that is addressed to a specific problem can be very productive, everyone is going in with the right intentions. Whereas when a topic is hijacked with something that was not even thought about being a possibility, it becomes a disaster quickly. I also know that one on one convos with a member and a staff member can be a unique experience. Problems are solved quicker, the staff doesn't feel like they need to address everyone on the topic but instead can focus on the one member's suggestions, opinions, and thoughts in a single PM one on one. I believe more of these things can be very beneficial to the administration and the community as a whole and am more than willing to be a part of making this a better place for everyone.I think a lot of people forget that the staff is just a group of members with extra privileges. It shouldn't be scary or even uncommon to discuss things with any of them.
A lot of these ranting/argumentative posts that pop up, in my opinion, stem from a lack of direct communication on everyone's part. We can't pin this on the staff, and we can't pin this on individual members of the staff. It seems like a lot of us, myself included, are wary of addressing a subject on our own most of the time. We notice a problem, but instead of nipping it in the bud, we let the issue eat at us until we find some sort of viable post to bring it up on. That's exactly what happened on the donation topic.
Some of us felt that asking for donations again was kind of excessive, which stemmed into a different problem someone wanted to bring up, which stemmed into a different problem someone wanted to bring up, which stemmed into a different problem someone wanted to bring up, which stemmed into a different problem someone wanted to bring up... Repeat ad nauseam.
I don't think anybody in there brought up a bad point; however, I think all of those points deserved a topic for themselves. We were trying to juggle a ton of only tangentially-related subjects in a single topic. That rarely accomplishes anything beyond frustration, and I think that's very plain to see when the topic inevitably gets locked.
I think plenty of good can be done here without an explosive argument in every major post. As long as we're all willing to speak up and be honest about what's bothering us, consider the opposite side of a disagreement, and most importantly be respectful even in our disagreements, we can accomplish way more than we've been able to.
Yes...? But I think when the posts were still there I read them correctly. And I think members that have been here since at least February would notice if it was about some other certain event but it wasn't really. It was more like the "rage still in store" you know xD? Maybe. But I think it was really mainly concerning the topic of the thread.Some times when a person is banned it is not always the reason you think. You may be looking at a post then see it deleted but think it is about that subject when in truth it is not.
If you want to die.That, or steal all of @sage's ice cream. :D
Hey, I'm not that mean. I mean, I'm horrible but please, I would never think about stealing all your ice cream.If you want to die.